Fashion can boost your confidence, but it is not as straightforward as you may think.
First of all, what is confidence?
Confidence: a feeling of self-assurance arising from one's appreciation of one's own abilities or qualities.
If confidence is a "feeling" based on "one's own abilities and/or qualities", then how does fashion play it's role in boosting self confidence?
The common misconception about the relationship of confidence and fashion is that it can be bought or copied. If you have the best you will feel the best. People focus their attentions on the results of what you "look like" and how "good" it makes you feel. The more beautiful you look, the more confidence you should have.
However, this theory falls flat, as there are many beautiful and wealthy people who have the lowest sense of self worth. Not to mention, the common pursuit of a particular type of beauty, serves no purpose beyond physical attraction.
This type of mental manipulation causes people to link confidence to money and success, when in actuality they are neglecting the essence of confidence building.
The only true way to use fashion to boost your confidence, is if it is used to celebrate who you are. No copying, no depending on labels or price tags, it's all about you.
The mental process of choosing and coordinating creates a relationship of understanding who you are. It is only at this level that fashion can become a vehicle of self discovery. As you explore this type of fashion adventure, you start to understand, and accept the essence of your personal formula. The better you understand your formula, the more you learn to trust it.
Embrace yourself, and discover your own beauty.
Follow your own path.
xo,
Maya
