"It takes courage to grow up and become who you really are."
Everyone talks about having individual style, and expressing one's self through fashion, but they miss to mention one key element on achieving it.
One of the biggest road blocks to finding your personal fashion aesthetic, is having to go against what everyone else is doing. We learn very early on, that being "different" is a negative thing, with embarrassing consequences.
Fashion trends guarantee you a level of security that people will accept you and admire you.
It makes obtaining success easier, and gives you a barrier of ultimate safety. You have the majority backing a singular idea, and anyone who defies it, is in the minority.
Why in the world would you ever risk failure by pursuing your own ideas?!
"Courage is the main quality of leadership, in my opinion, no matter where it is exercised. Usually it implies some risk- especially in new undertakings."
Pursue your own fashion identity, even if it terrifies you, because it is your personal responsibility to yourself. Yes, it creates huge risks, and people will most likely mock you, but the rewards will be immense. Why?When you create your own sense of style, you take the power back. What others are doing or thinking won't matter.You will define yourself based on what you believe, feel, and desire.
This life is yours, explore it free from manipulation.
"Your time is limited, so don't waste it living someone else's life. Don't be trapped by dogma- which is living with the results of other people's thinking. Don't let the noise of other people's opinions drown out your own inner voice. And most important, have the courage to follow your heart and intuition."