The truth of the matter is, laziness is ugly. YOU are not Ugly.
Like anything in life, "effort" does make a difference. Those extra 5 minutes of attention, will make a world of difference in your appearance, mental health, mood, and self image.
Beauty is defined in the work you apply to take care of yourself. Just like a plant needs proper nutrients, sunlight, and water, your attractiveness depends on factors of maintenance.
This includes: skincare, hygiene, exercise, personal maintenance and wisdom. I hate to break it to you, but you are not just born beautiful. No one is.
It is a daily effort that fluctuates based on will power. I personally, struggle with my skin and weight during stressful or hard moments in my life. This is a result of poor food choices, lack of sleep, and exercise.
Just like any skill, you must learn the techniques to maneuver your actions for the desired reactions. Learning from your mistakes, looking for solutions and striving to be better on a consistent basis, is not an easy task. It is okay to fail, we all do; but, personal beauty can only be achieved with humility and acceptance of those mistakes, and the commitment to try again.
The way you live your life, and the effort you put into yourself, is your personal canvas.
The clothes you wear, match your personal aesthetic. The books you read, represent the shape and directions of your thoughts. The food you eat, symbolizes your desire to live. The art you love represents your soul.
Just like the furniture in your home, your efforts should bring you joy, and comfort.
A sense of home.